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December Parent Pointer Calendar for Families with Middle School Students

Sun. Mon. Tues. Wed. Thurs. Fri. Sat.
      1 Encourage your child to use to-do lists to help keep focused on what needs to be done. 2 Make a special after-school snack for your child.  Visit about the day you each had while sharing the treat. 3 Have each family member think of two nice things to do today.  Later, share what you did. 4 Is there a quotation that inspires you?  Share it with your child.
5 Make popcorn and rent a movie with your child.  Afterward, talk about the movie. 6 Make a commitment not to let holiday plans hurt your child's study routine. 7 Encourage your child to compare prices and return policies before buying something. 8 Suggest that your child ask herself near the end of a study session, "Can I do one more thing?"  Small things add up. 9 Help your child think of ways to say "no" to drugs, alcohol and smoking. 10 Take advantage of time in the car with your child.  You can talk privately without interruption. 11 Peer pressure can be positive.  Encourage group activities like sports and volunteering.
12 Suggest your child give some of his time during the holidays.  Look for volunteering activities you can do together. 13 Suggest that your child write a letter to an author, lawmaker or celebrity. 14 One night this week, watch your child's favorite TV show with her.  Talk about it together. 15 Don't let your children watch TV while studying, no matter how much they want to. 16 It's the Boston Tea Party anniversary.  Teach your child about this historical event. 17 As your child becomes more responsible, switch from a weekly to a monthly allowance. 18 Cook dinner with your child.  Try to think about ways to reduce the fat in something you are cooking.
19 Many new movies come out during the holidays.  Make plans to see one with your child. 20 Meet the parents of your child's friends.  Work as a team to keep your kids safe. 21 Notice the states on license plates.  Name something you know about each one. 22 Look through your child's baby book together.  Talk about past achievements. 23 Pretend the power has gone out.  Turn off the TV and read or tell stories by flashlight. 24 Tell your child something you love and admire about her. 25 Make a special toast to your child at breakfast or dinner.
26 Expect your child to write thank-you notes for gifts.  It's polite and it builds writing skills. 27 Is your child becoming a couch potato?  Find physical activities you can enjoy together. 28 Discuss with your child what things you both could do to conserve energy and natural resources. 29 Help your child open a bank savings account.  Explain how to keep track of deposits and withdrawals. 30 Check on your child's goals for the school year.  Make note of progress. 31 Have your child list the most important lessons from this school so far this year.  


 

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